i just remembered JP's old bike. {it was a hand-me-down from cousin Miggy}
it's no longer the first sight in the garage. hubby stored it to be given away to charity. what brightens my son's mornings nowadays is his new ride. yeah, new ride! it has no name. it's simply JP's bike. {my son has not gotten to that point yet when his rides has names, like other big boys do (right daddy?)}.
JP chose the color {i was really hoping he'll choose green}. it was actually an end-of-the-schoolyear gift to our son, not just for completing his first year in school but for doing it with a mark. he made us proud and we want to reward him for it.
you see, we are in the stage when we want our son to remember that huge and expensive presents are given only during birthdays, christmas and occasions like graduating top of his class.
we do buy him a few, little surprises on ordinary days {what we filipinos are famous for - pasalubongs}. but we do not want him to grow up spoiled or someone who needs to have what he wants all the time, immediately and without effort.
it's pretty hard because having an only child makes you want to give all that he wants. you are torn between showing your love and showing your love the right way without sacrificing the values that you need to instill in him.
he is in preschool and this is the age when you, as a parent, play a key role in the molding of your child's presonality because there are now outside factors that affects his growth.
everyday, i try my best (we try our best) not to give in to stress and simply say yes to whatever requests our son has. we try our best not to promise things that we know we cannot afford to give and assume that he will forget about them one day.
our children are works in progress and each day, i say a silent prayer that i'd be successful in playing the part of a PARENT in my child's life.